On major Jewish holidays tradition has established the reciting of special prayers called Yizkor. Yizkor prayers recall the lives of loved pones who have passed away. Whenever the calendar brings special times, we often remember parents, siblings and other loved ones whom we have lost. This can be a very emotional time. Yizkor can not only help us to ease the sense of loss but to honor the memories of our loved ones. Let's learn more about Yizkor.
What is Yizkor?
Yizkor is a series of prayers recited on certain major Jewish holidays. The purpose of the prayers is to remember the lives of loved ones who have passed away. Some Jews believe that these prayers have the effect of elevating the souls of the departed. Yizkor also has a profound effect on the individual reciting the prayers. The emotional and spiritual impact of connecting with our deceased loved ones is indescribable. Yizkor requires the presence of a minyan. Many families light a memorial candle on the day Yizkor is recited.
How is Yizkor done?
Yizkor often begins with a series of readings or prayers. There may be Psalms, original readings or poetry. Although not part of the Yizkor ritual itself, these readings set a proper mood for the recitations that follow.
Next there is a series of prayers recited silently that recall the deceased. There are prayers recalling one's parents, siblings and in some communities other relatives and even friends. There is also a prayer memorializing Jewish martyrs. Each individual recited the appropriate prayers.
After the individual has had ample opportunity to prayer and reflection, the cantor recites a traditional memorial prayer, El Male Rachamim (God Full of Compassion).
In many communities the prayer Av HaRachamim (Father of Mercies) is recited by the community in remembrance of all Jewish martyrs.
Some communities add Psalm 23 and the Mourner's Kaddish as a conclusion to the ceremony.
Traditionally congregants who has both parents living exit the sanctuary while Yizkor is recited.
There are some minor variations in the ritual from community to community. You should consult your rabbi if you are in doubt as to how Tizkor is conducted in your community.
When is Yizkor recited?
Yizkor is recited on Yom Kippur, the last day of Passover and Shavuot, and on Shemini Atzeret.
Yizkor is a meaningful time of reflection and remembering. Take advantage of this beautiful and meaningful tradition.
Related links:
Yizkor: The Jewish Memorial Service
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